The UK is a nation of dog lovers, but sadly, a new survey from Dogs Trust has revealed that one in ten who have ever experienced the loss of their beloved dog felt that there wasn’t anyone they could speak to about their grief.
An overwhelming 89% of UK adults told the charity that they believed losing a dog is like losing a close family member. However, despite the clear emotional ties we have with our dogs, this survey of UK dog owners, and those who have owned a dog in the past, revealed that around half experienced barriers to opening up about their feelings following the death of their pet.
Some of the reasons given for not opening up include believing others wouldn’t understand their feelings (22%), fear of being judged for being upset (15%), feeling embarrassed about their levels of distress (12%) and not being able to find the right words to describe their feelings (13%).
And, while the majority (74%) felt they could turn to close family to share feelings of grief over the loss of the dog, just 13% felt they could discuss it with employers and colleagues.
Samantha Davis, Legacy and In-Memory Manager at Dogs Trust, says: “The loss of a pet dog can be as devastating as losing a family member. Dogs hold a special place in our hearts, offering unconditional love and companionship, and when they pass away, the grief can be profound and, sadly for some, isolating.
“It’s really important that owners who experience the loss of their canine companions can open up and share their feelings with friends and family. Many will find solace in knowing they are not alone.”
To address the emotional void felt by many following the loss of their dog, Dogs Trust has launched its first Walk for Our Old Friends (WOOF) event. It is hoped that bringing people together to share their cherished memories and the fun times they had with their canine companion will help owners come to terms with their loss.
The 3.5km walk will take place in Salcey Forest, Northampton, on Sunday 6 October 2024 between 4pm-7pm. As walkers make their way through the forest, there will be opportunities for moments of remembrance and celebration. The charity will also provide support resources for those participating with a team onsite as well as online information to help people cope with their loss.
For those unable to attend the event in Northampton, Dogs Trust is also providing online resources for people to organise their own walk in memory of their much missed four legged friends. More details about the WOOF Walk and how to download the online packs can be found https://events.dogstrust.org.uk/event/walk-for-our-old-friends
